What Pain Is Teaching Me As An UniqMom: A Wake-Up Call Through Jahmya’s Miracle

There are moments in life that divide everything into before and after. For me, that moment came when Mya’s life was suddenly hanging in the balance. No warning. No time to prepare. Just fear, pain, and the sharp realization that nothing would ever be the same again.

But pain—real, soul-deep pain—had a way of opening my eyes to things I’ve seen in the past but never seen so clearly before.

I see just how fragile life is. How quickly everything I’ve taken for granted has shifted, collapsed, or even vanished through my sorrow! The little things I stress over suddenly felt so small compared to the sheer weight of holding onto someone you love. That same blue, premature, fragile baby girl I birthed.

I see now how deeply I loved. Deeper than I thought I could. That love came with fear, of course, but it also came with fire. It made me hope harder and pray even harder.

I discovered a strength in myself I didn’t know existed. When you’re standing at the edge, you find out what you’re really made of. And sometimes, you surprise yourself.

I learned who and what really matters. Crisis has a way of making the noise fall away. The fake, the shallow, the unnecessary—gone. What’s left is truth. And the people who show up in your darkest moments? They’re everything.

I found unexpected gratitude. Even in the middle of chaos, there were slivers of grace: a touch, a word, a heartbeat, a breath. The tiniest moments became monumental.

And maybe most importantly, I felt a shift in my sense of purpose. Life isn’t about running on autopilot anymore. It’s about being present. Loving hard. Living fully. And honoring the second chance we’ve been given.

Pain didn’t break me—it revealed me.

Pain reminds us that the real Enemy is working hard to keep us stuck in broken places — trapped in defeat, fear, and doubt. But when we grab hold of God’s perspective, pain becomes a powerful gift: it awakens a fight inside of us — a brave tenacity and fierce determination to push forward.

We don’t battle without purpose. We fight because healing is on the other side — healing for my UniqWarrior, Jahmya.

Victory is coming. Healing is coming. We will not back down. Miracle in Motion.

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